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Compliments of Angela Sevin via Flickr

Compliments of Angela Sevin via Flickr

In society there are plans in place for people who commit murder. For killing someone’s soul there are no legal punishments. For humiliating individuals beyond the pale, there are no bonds issued. J. A. Gilbert

In her book the “The Lovely Bones,” Sebold describes a killer who stalks young female victims – then sexually overpowers them before savoring the delicious “death moan.”

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Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise. (Dale Carnegie).

Of all the types of emotional abuse (blackmail, aggression, shaming, and chronic invalidation) failure to praise is perhaps the most prevalent at work. Absence of positive reinforcement can result for the following reasons:

  • Managers are busy, overworked due to wider spans of control, layoffs, globalization, and rapidly changing technology. Dispensing warm fuzzies is probably not high on their list. This effect occurs when companies ignore their priority – that of developing their human capital.  Turn the page…
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