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Compliments of ZOom2 via Flickr

 Jealousy is code for lazy  

– and lack of confidence in one’s abilities.  It’s an emotion so strong it has led to murder.   

Chagrined by their pedigree and ashamed of their achievements (or lack of thereof), the jealous lash out at their alleged threat. Their degree of obnoxious behavior is proportional to their perceived inadequacy. Why do people spend time downing their compatriots, when that same time could be spent correcting their flaws? Turn the page…

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Compliments of SweetCapture via Flickr

Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise. (Dale Carnegie).

Of all the types of emotional abuse (blackmail, aggression, shaming, and chronic invalidation) failure to praise is perhaps the most prevalent at work. Absence of positive reinforcement can result for the following reasons:

  • Managers are busy, overworked due to wider spans of control, layoffs, globalization, and rapidly changing technology. Dispensing warm fuzzies is probably not high on their list. This effect occurs when companies ignore their priority – that of developing their human capital.  Turn the page…
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