Narcissism is increasing, with more Americans feeling entitled to special treatment (and feeling incensed when they don’t receive it). I think that ourself-focus – and the closeness we feel with our things – are intertwined. Excess materialism, individualistic performance appraisal, and competitive practice unearth our worst behavior. A society in which “gimme, gimme, gimme” is the norm spawns beings who are stingy, selfish, and reactive when they don’t get their own way. Turn the page…
“Sunlight is the best disinfectant” (Naomi Wolf).
After attending the MTSU Namie event, Brock Patterson (one of my graduate students) offered this insightful commentary:
“It seems that bullies, whether in schools, workplaces, or marriages, act out not because of what they HAVE (control, power, authority, respect, and fear) but because of what they DON’T HAVE (self-esteem, self-confidence, friends, family, love, and relationships). Bullies are looking for an ’emotional back-rub’ from people who either do not recognize this need or don’t know how to give the support.” Turn the page…






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